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New Year, New Lessons.

It’s Jan 1st 2020 and that usually means that we’re all going to write out a list of goals that we want to achieve. Most of us usually feel really good on this day, because it’s a day that to most people, represents new beginnings. Although that is somewhat true, it’s always on days like today that I wonder why so many people wait until Jan 1st to start making life changes, why isn’t it something we just do whenever we feel the need to?

If you’ve been following me since this time last year, than you’ll know that this time last year, I created a challenge for myself called the #52weekchallenge. 

Basically I set myself a new goal or thing to work towards/focus on for each week of the year and although I didn’t keep you all up to date with it via my blog each week (as I had originally planned to do) I am happy to say that I didn’t completely fail it. 

I actually completed about 40 of the 52 things I had set for myself and I must say, it REALLY was a challenge, but even though it was hard, I…
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